Courtroom Behaviour Matters – Why Litigants in Person Should Consider a McKenzie Friend
- Falsely Accused Network
- Oct 3
- 2 min read
By Michael Thompson, Founder – Falsely Accused Network
The recent case of Daniel Hesketh, reported by Legal Futures should serve as a stark warning to anyone going into the family courts without legal representation. (See link at the bottom of the article)
Mr Hesketh, a litigant in person, was jailed for four months after becoming abusive and threatening towards a family judge during private proceedings at St Helens Family Court. He swore repeatedly, disrupted the hearing, and even threatened to “punch the lights out” of the judge if he saw him outside court.
His behaviour escalated from frustration to outright rage, and the result was a prison sentence for contempt of court.
The rising number of litigants in person
With the costs of family solicitors and barristers often out of reach, more and more people are representing themselves as litigants in person. At Falsely Accused Network, we understand why – the reality is that many people simply cannot afford professional legal representation.
But as this case shows, going into court alone carries serious risks. Courtrooms are formal settings, and judges expect cases to be presented calmly, respectfully, and in line with procedure. Losing control in that environment can ruin your credibility – and in extreme cases, cost you your liberty.
Why courtroom behaviour matters
Family cases are emotionally charged, especially where children are concerned. It is natural to feel angry, frustrated, or overwhelmed. But the courtroom is not a place where you can vent those emotions.
As Mr Justice Poole said when sentencing Mr Hesketh, “justice cannot be done if certain standards of conduct and respect… are not maintained.” Abusing or threatening the court undermines not only your own case, but also the administration of justice itself.
Why you should consider a McKenzie Friend
If you cannot afford a solicitor or barrister, you should at least consider taking a McKenzie Friend with you.
A McKenzie Friend cannot speak on your behalf in court, but they can:
Sit with you and provide moral support
Help you stay calm and focused
Organise your paperwork and take notes
Keep you grounded when emotions run high
Too many people say “I know my case better than anyone, I can manage on my own.” But knowing your case is not the same as knowing how to present it effectively under the pressure of a court hearing.
The takeaway
The Daniel Hesketh case is a clear example of what can go wrong when courtroom behaviour spirals out of control. Representing yourself is sometimes unavoidable – but if you do, you must remain respectful and composed.
And remember: if professional legal help is unaffordable, at least take a McKenzie Friend with you. Their support can make all the difference between being heard fairly and damaging your case irreparably.
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Disclaimer: This article is for information and awareness only. It is not legal advice. Falsely Accused Network does not provide representation or legal services. If you need legal advice, you must seek help from a qualified solicitor or barrister.
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