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Other Helpful Resources:
Alcohol and drugs support:
https://www.alcoholics-anonymous.org.uk/AA-Meetings/Find-a-Meeting/
https://ukna.org/
https://smartrecovery.org.uk/
Mental health support:
https://www.samaritans.org/
https://www.thecalmzone.net/
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“Don’t Be That Guy”: A Hard Truth We Have to Say Out Loud
Written by Michael Thompson, Founder of the Falsely Accused Network One of the hardest parts of running the helpline is not the anger. It’s not even the injustice. It’s the silence that comes after a man has lost everything. We hear it far too often. Men ringing us broken, sometimes literally in tears, saying the same thing over and over again: “I went to family court on my own. I lost the fact-finding. I’ve lost contact with my kids. What can I do now?” And the honest answer
Jan 215 min read


NEW SUPPORT ENHANCEMENT FOR OUR MCKENZIE FRIEND PACKAGES
We’re pleased to announce a significant improvement to the McKenzie Friend packages offered through the Falsely Accused Network for people n
Jan 192 min read


“Allegation Is Not Evidence”: How Due Process Quietly Died in Domestic Abuse Cases
There was a time when this principle was beyond dispute.
An allegation is not evidence.
Jan 124 min read


WHY WON’T THE POLICE TAKE ME SERIOUSLY?
Across England and Wales, a growing number of men are coming forward to report domestic abuse perpetrated by a wife or girlfriend. What we a
Jan 53 min read
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A Marathon of Manipulation: The Devastating Case of Reuben (A Child) [2025] EWFC 392 (B)
When I read Reuben (A Child) [2025] EWFC 392 (B), what struck me most was not the legal complexity, nor even the nine-year litigation histor
Nov 19, 20255 min read


The Secret Life and the False Allegation: When Exposure Becomes a Weapon
Psychologists have long understood that every human being lives three lives:
a public life, which is the image shown to the world;
a priva
Nov 12, 20253 min read


When Innocence Isn’t Enough: The Hidden Injustice of Family Court Findings
Every week, I hear from men who have lived through one of the most soul-destroying experiences imaginable — being falsely accused of domesti
Nov 11, 20253 min read


Your Child Isn’t Your Therapist: Why Emotional Burdening Harms Children
When adults go through separation, stress, conflict, or legal challenges, emotions can run high.
In those moments, many parents unintentiona
Nov 5, 20253 min read


Alienating Behaviours: The Family Court Has It Right — It’s Time to End the Denial
Parental alienation or, as the courts now prefer to call it, alienating behaviours is one of the most divisive issues in modern family law
Oct 29, 20254 min read


When Accountability Cuts Both Ways: Lessons from Mahmoud v Glanville for the Falsely Accused
The recent judgment in Mahmoud v Glanville & Anor (High Court, Family Division) has been praised by many for reinforcing the consequences of
Oct 29, 20253 min read


The MoJ’s Presumption Review: thin evidence, big policy—and a serious risk to the falsely accused
The Ministry of Justice has published its Review of the Presumption of Parental Involvement – Final Report, alongside research papers and a
Oct 23, 20254 min read


The Three Pillars of Support at the Falsely Accused Network
At the Falsely Accused Network (FAN), we understand the devastating impact of false or mistaken allegations. That’s why we’ve built our supp
Sep 22, 20252 min read


❓ Frequently Asked Questions (FAN)
❓ Frequently Asked Questions (FAN)
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1. Who does the Falsely Accused Network support?
We support anyone in England & Wales who has bee
Sep 7, 20254 min read


The Build-Up to False Allegations of Domestic Abuse: Recognising the Patterns
False allegations of domestic abuse are not random. In the work we do at the Falsely Accused Network, one thing becomes clear: there is near
Aug 21, 20253 min read


Understanding Female-Perpetrated Abuse Against Men
Abuse doesn’t always look how you expect. While most public attention focuses on male-on-female abuse—and rightly so in many cases—there’s a
Aug 11, 20253 min read


Leaving Manchester Was the Best Decision I’ve Ever Made
I was born and raised in Manchester. I spent my entire life there. It’s where I faced my biggest challenges. False accusations. Family court
Aug 8, 20252 min read


Breaking Up with a Girlfriend or Wife Who Has Borderline Personality Disorder Or Abusive Female
Breaking up with a girlfriend who has BPD is tough. Breaking up with a wife who has it is far more dangerous.
Aug 4, 20253 min read


When Everything And Anything Becomes Abuse
Abuse used to mean something clear. Physical violence. Coercion. Serious harm. Now it includes anything someone feels upset about.
Aug 2, 20253 min read


What Really Frightens Me: How a Determined Woman Can Erase a Father
I’ve seen a lot. I’ve heard even more. But there’s one thing that still truly frightens me: how easy it is for a woman—if she’s determined e
Jul 18, 20253 min read


I Wish Falsely Accused Network Didn't Have To Exist
I never set out to build an organisation. I never wanted to be a campaigner. If things had gone differently, I’d still be quietly living my
Jul 10, 20253 min read
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